Did Ann Coulter Abort? Salud Carbajal and Judge Donna Geck

California is a 'dangerous' place for us women who choose not to abort in Kamala Harris' California.

At an early age, I marched in the streets as a lower middle-class girl with my Democratic female leaders, since I was a feminist because I was raised by a single mother since the age of 2. My mother's mantra that still echoes in my ears today, was to ‘never rely on men,’ which I have not. My petite mother stood at 4’8 inches with pretty, green eyes, a curved back from having polio as a young girl, brown hair, and freckled nose. She was painfully shy, which is probably why her girls learned to speak out at an early age. - at least I did. 

In my early teen years, one morning as I dressed for school, the radio talk show host's voice, Newt Gingrich, echoed loudly through the small downstairs bathroom of our subsidized townhouse in Warren, Michigan. Newt was ranting loudly and angerly about what he termed welfare queens, which didn't apply to mom and about how men would never date us feminist. 

As a single mother of three kids, my mom only accepted subsidized housing and worked for the city of Warren's water department for 30 years, until she retired. We were taught by grandfather, who died when I was young when my mom and us kids lived with my grandparents for 7 years after my mom divorced when I was 2. Grandfather would warn us that noting is for free. We had our pride against taking government handouts. 

As a young teen, mom prohibited me from using mascara, so as I carefully applied my green eye shadow and set my hair with large, hot rollers, I reflected on my freckled face in the mirror, admiring the color of my long, auburn hair falling around my jawline, and cringed at Newt's characterization of feminists as ugly man-haters. His tirade left me feeling sad because I didn’t hate men. In fact, I hardly knew any grown men as a young woman and remember that I would actually hide when one came into our house.

Hearing Newt continue his rant, I inquisitively glanced at myself in the mirror again. I didn’t feel ugly because I was a feminist. I thought, my black Irish sister wasn't ugly. She was a model at the age of 16 with her big black eyes, sexy eyebrows, clear ivory skin, and jet-black hair.

 I witnessed my mom's excitement about discussions on equal pay for equal work, a fundamental aspect of what feminism meant to us, and then observed her disappointment and sadness as the conversation took a twisted turn by such creeps as Newt. I then thought of my best friend's mother who lived a life of leisure with her husband and family, enjoying comfort without the necessity of working - a stay home mother with two kids who didn't have to work. She even had a woman help her with cleaning her house and cooking. Her dad was an engineer at the local GM plant.

...and at that moment, I couldn't help but envy my friends mom who unlike my mom laughed easily, imagining how she garnered more recognition from the distorted discussion about feminism, while my mother's diligent efforts in working full time while taking care of three children with little help would be unrecognized. In contrast, I can still hear my mom crying alone in her room on too many occasions.

During the late '70s, the image of a feminist underwent a transformation from feminism being simply about equal pay for equal work, to a stereotype about us feminist being ugly man-haters that men would avoid dating, while women of privilege, exempt from the workforce, were somehow considered to be doing equal work as their husbands who went to work every day.

But now, having been a single mother for 16 years, and going through pregnancy alone without any help, I strongly disagree with the persistent myth that the work required to pay the bills is somehow equal to the role of a stay-at-home mother who doesn't have to work outside the home to support her family.

For me, spending time with my son when he was young was a privilege, an enjoyable and rewarding experience; far from being categorized as "work". Nothing I have done in my life brought me more joy and fulfillment than spending time with him. I wish I had more time with my young son!

Yes, as a young woman, I fought for the right of women to abort our future children thinking it was the right thing to do for freedom. But then when my choice was NOT to abort, which is my best life decision, where were all the women to fight for me? ...nowhere to be found.

While pregnant, I spoke to many women about my decision to have a child out of wedlock. Several of them admitted to aborting their future children. I was amazed at how many conservative and self-identified Christians aborted to avoid the shame of being an out of wedlock mother like me, only to later demonized us single moms.  

Women like conservative Ann Coulter, call single mothers guilty in her book “Guilty.” Coulter demonizes us without ANY discussion about economics, child support, social support, housing, etc. …and what about the men?  This left me wondering if Ann Coulter aborted. It would explain her constant vilification of us in her book. She is hurting and is jealous that she aborted her children. ...and in 2015, Jeb Bush defended a passage in his 1995 book that called for the shaming of us single out-of-wedlock moms. These self-proclaimed pro-lifers demonize us women who choose not to abort.

...and the lack of support I received in Kamala Harris' California is unconscionable. When I discovered that Santa Barbara Child Support Services *SBCSS) where my son's father's ex-wife, Debra Mullin, was one of three attorneys working there at the time, had not done a property search as required so that my monthly child support for 14 years was only $250 a month, I reached out for help from Salud Carbajal. I asked for help from him because Judge Denise deBellefuille - a woman of privilege - married to the lead judge of Santa Barbara, Judge Herman - was protecting the property manager, Valerie Sweatt. I was told by SBCSS that Valerie submitted documents for the purpose of child support of net income for my son's father's property instead of gross as the law required. In contrast, Salud is more than eager to assist any illegal immigrant who break our laws.

Later, Judge Donna Geck called my lawsuit against SBCSS, where when I sued, my monthly was reevaluated to over $1100 from $250 a month, frivolous to protect Kevin Corstorphine from one day in court so I could prove my innocence regarding a minor auto accident when I couldn't afford the security deposit of $15,000. In other words, Judge Geck committed judicial fraud to protect privilege. See www.thejudgesoath under her name. The evidence is bold and in your face that she committed judicial fraud by claiming I had NO evidence in the face of 5 settlement agreements.

In fact, the court had to hide two small claims judgments  - One default judgment Kevin won when he sued me - I didn't sue him - I was the Defendant when he received a one on one with an attorney acting as a small claims judge while most people wait for hours to hear their small claims cases heard - and my case against SBCSS from the public. All these documents have been removed from the public court docket. 

I wrote to the Judicial Performance committee, and they claim that these documents have been labeled Confidential. But why would small claims judgments and my case against SBCC be confidential - only to hide judicial fraud from the public. We need court reform NOW!

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